Wednesday, March 19, 2025

Positivity is Attractive.

 Which might be the exact title I have conjured for a previous blog entry but I am not really sure... but I don't mind if I am echoing such a deceptively valuable statement. I say deceptive because it probably seems quite obvious from the outside. Even like a dumb thing to say. But I think it's deeper than what it appears. I'll lay out a few ideas about why I think that.

Positivity can show resilience. The ability to rebound from challenging times, negative situations, or otherwise detrimental behaviors. Resilience is a kind of toughness and also a kind of steadfastness. It can be a key ability making personal change in life.

Positivity can show intention. It is not typically a natural behavior in many settings but expresses a person's decisive intention when it manifests in those settings... even more so when it stands in opposition to the negative settings we experience.

Positivity can show self-control and strength of will. This might be the most attractive element I can see among these qualities. Maybe it is because they are qualities I seek to have within myself the most. The qualities that I admire the most in others. Qualities which you can build as a foundation where other qualities and grow from.

Anyway... I felt like exploring the topic a bit because I was offered a bit of positivity in the online dating world today. Some people write songs... I write blog posts. Ha. It's a different kind of art, I suppose. So sue me!

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