I have been thinking about the myriad of reasons I am rejected by women over the past several years and there is a common idea that seems to come up a lot... that would be the idea that I think that girls assume too many things about me before really getting to know me or do any of their own research into who I really am. I say I think because this is really mostly an assumption on my part as well so I am equally responsible for the blame since I don't really know why I am always rejected by the lady folk. They almost never respond with their words, only with their actions... which seem to speak somewhat clearly enough. Ha.
Anyway, I would like to create a full-length, yet ever evolving, disclaimer about the things one should not assume about me(most of which I tend to think are most applicable to the girls and dating situation) in order to help people understand me better. I don't know if it could ever have any positive impact on my dating life(which almost seems like it is actually dead... or undead?.. like a zombie? Is my dating life a zombie dating life? weird.) but I feel it can have some sort of positive life benefits anyway. One might be a better understanding of myself as I attempt to describe the way I think people perceive me and the way I hope I am perceived. A self-inspection never hurts in general for that reason, I would say.
Since I do not have the time to get things started tonight I will have to start working on it another time. But, I WILL work on it soon for sure. I am quite motivated. Probably motivated for reasons that won't bear any significant fruit(namely, the feelings I have for a girl that seems to have given me the boot) but I don't think that is really a bad reason either. Motivation is motivation and anywhere you can find it is probably not a particularly bad thing(there has to be a boat-load of flaws with that logic. ha).
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