To be the mysterious me, or not to be?

That is a question that I pose to myself when I consider the typical effect I as a person seem to have on the opposite gender.  I generally don't want to be mysterious since it seems to me like a bit of dishonesty and encourages a disconnect from reality.  But, as I seem to find more and more evidence leading me to believe that I am generally intimidating to said gender, I wonder if I should climb back into the shell of obscurity so to speak.

I once thought I would do better to come out of my shell:

http://aaroncastillo.blogspot.com/2007/10/long-overduenot-library-book.html

Or maybe I appear too dramatic by merely writing on these topics as much as I do?  Ya... I'm sure it doesn't help my case.  At least not from the perspective of a possible suitor(can a girl be considered a suitor?... maybe I'll look that up later. ha.) I probably sound whiny and all kinds of woe-is-me... I hope that's not the case.  I feel pretty positive about things even though I feel totally inept about how to go about doing things the right way.  This is one of the ways I learn how to change things for the better.

Or maybe I just need to forget about the whole realization of my intimidation factor and just go on intimidating girls left and right?  I seriously don't know how that could be smart to do for any reason.  What a silly idea... I suppose the looming lethargy I am experiencing is having a greater effect than I'd like.

In any case, I will just go on as I have been until I can come up with a better plan.  It will probably take some work to formulate but so does making just the right caramel for caramel corn... one ingredient at a time.  And I can't forget the humor ingredient for sure!(even though I seem to be forgetting it every night. ha)

Oh well... There will always be tomorrow.(famous last words of the procrastination king)