I know that I do not know much about the visual connection that is made between a couple. I have always thought the guy is the one who is more visually attracted to the girl, but now I am tending to think it is a fairly balanced scale of attraction... though, for a girl it is not for most of the same reasons.
A man can have a very physical reaction to the mere sight of a woman he finds attractive. Something compelling and deeply entrenched in his very psyche which often guides the way he will treat said woman.
A woman will evaluate a man's potential based on the visual elements of a man, sometimes lacking any personally physical reaction to the sight of that man. Strangely(with no offense intended to the women), it seems a more logical way to assess potential compatibility. Men just don't seem to have this sort of logical control without having first developed it through learning and practice.
In any case, I am finally coming to understand the importance of creating a good visual representation of myself in order to attract the right woman for me. Having little purposeful experience in this regard I feel I am quite behind the ball and recognize the immensity of my shortcomings in this regard. I guess everybody has to start somewhere!
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